{"id":166,"date":"2008-09-08T06:00:12","date_gmt":"2008-09-08T13:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/?p=166"},"modified":"2008-09-07T21:25:08","modified_gmt":"2008-09-08T04:25:08","slug":"empty-nest-week-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/empty-nest-week-one\/","title":{"rendered":"Empty Nest: Week One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"File URL\"><\/a>Don&#8217;t worry, I&#8217;m not going to journal my journey through Empty Nest Syndrome. Reading <a href=\"http:\/\/www.netdoctor.co.uk\/womenshealth\/features\/ens.htm\">this article<\/a>\u00a0made me feel a lot better about the emotions I&#8217;ve experienced since dropping Eldest Son off at university seven days ago (that&#8217;s him between me and Y.S. in the truck). And guess what? Ta-da! I&#8217;m normal. (Bet you never saw that coming).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-168 aligncenter\" title=\"cindy_boys\" src=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_3.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_3-150x112.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Yes, it&#8217;s completely normal to feel like you&#8217;re in a sort of mourning when your child leaves for college for the first time. It&#8217;s perfectly okay to feel like a mountain is sitting on your chest. The good news is, the mountain gets up and leaves. It&#8217;s funny how a one-line email from the child in question or communicating with him via your other child&#8217;s Instant Messaging System of choice can suddenly right your world again. Days 3 &#8211; 5 were the worst. Then the rational side of me realized, I&#8217;m <em>not<\/em> mourning him. He&#8217;s alive and well and healthy and hopefully having the time of his life. <a href=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_2.jpg\"><\/a>What else could a mother wish for? (For the grammarians among you, read that, &#8220;For what else could a mother wish?&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-169 aligncenter\" title=\"fam_dam\" src=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"271\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_2.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye_2-150x135.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">We had a great time as a family and visited old friends who greatly helped in the transition. It&#8217;s wonderful to know my dear friend J. is only a short drive away from the campus. Plus, E.S. is attending my Alma mater, which My Liege also attended during my second year.\u00a0Yes, the campus is a lot bigger than it was &#8220;back in the day,&#8221; but we covered a lot of familiar territory, and I realized the university still holds a special place in my heart. A beautiful city, a beautiful campus, beautiful friends, and a beautiful son&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-167\" title=\"es_bye\" src=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"188\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye.jpg 250w, https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/es_bye-150x112.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Life is good.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t worry, I&#8217;m not going to journal my journey through Empty Nest Syndrome. Reading this article\u00a0made me feel a lot better about the emotions I&#8217;ve experienced since dropping Eldest Son off at university seven days ago (that&#8217;s him between me and Y.S. in the truck). And guess what? Ta-da! I&#8217;m normal. (Bet you never saw&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/empty-nest-week-one\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Empty Nest: Week One<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-the-non-writing-life","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=166"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/166\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=166"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=166"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=166"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}