{"id":217,"date":"2008-11-03T06:00:03","date_gmt":"2008-11-03T13:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/?p=217"},"modified":"2008-11-01T10:53:14","modified_gmt":"2008-11-01T17:53:14","slug":"monday-musings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/monday-musings\/","title":{"rendered":"Monday Musings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Welcome to my first post of November! What makes this day even more special? It&#8217;s my first ever first post of November! What would have made it even MORE special? If I&#8217;d posted my first ever first day of November post on November 1st! But I didn&#8217;t. So I guess this day isn&#8217;t as special as I&#8217;d thought. And here I got all excited for nothing. Hmph.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I hope everyone had a fun and safe Halloween weekend. Did you attend any parties? Kid or grown-up? Accompany kidlets trick-or-treating?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I had an eventful week in my writing world last week that reminded me what a front-car-of-the-rollercoaster experience writing and publishing can feel like. I received one bad piece of news followed by three good pieces of news.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Early in the week, I received a rejection\u00a0from an Industry Professional I was eager to connect with (note how I am not admitting in public if the I.P. was an editor or agent? This is to keep I.P.s who might read my blog guessing\/in the dark\/curious\/scrambling to snatch me up\u2014snarf!). The rejection hit me a little harder than usual, not so much for the rejection itself, I realized\u00a0later, but because of an Act of Ungracious Behavior on the part of someone from whom\u00a0I&#8217;d expected better. Yes, life is strange when someone else&#8217;s reaction to your rejection hits you harder than the rejection&#8230;but no one ever said writers weren&#8217;t neurotic (honestly, NO ONE has ever said that, and if they have, they should be shot).<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Thank God for the good news. And guess what? The first piece of good news was the rejection itself. I realized when I read the rejection what an excellent rejection it was. Personalized, specific, basically saying only good things about my writing followed by a comment about worries about the tight market. And it was very, very bad of Moi to allow the Act of Ungracious Behavior to overshadow that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">The publishing gods must have decided to take pity on me and force me to get over my bout of blues, because the next day I received my second piece of validating news\u2014a thank you note from an unpublished writer I&#8217;d judged in a contest. What a smile it brought to my face. To hear that the writer greatly appreciated my comments and input, to hear that I&#8217;d mentioned points she felt she should have caught herself, to hear that my critique was the best she&#8217;d ever received from a contest judge&#8230;okay, maybe she wrote the same note to all her judges, but I don&#8217;t think so, and I don&#8217;t care. I needed that. Thank you, contest entrant. Honestly, unpublished writers out there who enter contests, yes, we judges need our thank you&#8217;s!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Number three good news\u00a0came the day following the thank you note\u2014a manuscript\u00a0request from another Industry Professional\u00a0I&#8217;m just as eager to connect\u00a0with (I&#8217;m not playing favorites at this point, Moi, and, even if I were, I wouldn&#8217;t announce it here). So I had to put aside the writing of the Work in Progress to feel great, re-read the requested material yet again, and submit it. No matter what happens with this submission, I <em>needed<\/em> the request to come when it did. I needed the thank you note. And I needed the\u00a0wonderful compliments in the &lt;insert bad word that starts with a R that should not be spoken aloud&gt; letter.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I think there&#8217;s a lesson in there somewhere&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Welcome to my first post of November! What makes this day even more special? It&#8217;s my first ever first post of November! What would have made it even MORE special? If I&#8217;d posted my first ever first day of November post on November 1st! But I didn&#8217;t. So I guess this day isn&#8217;t as special&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/monday-musings\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Monday Musings<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":51,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,30,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-217","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-contests","category-publishing-journeys","category-this-and-that","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/51"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=217"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/217\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=217"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=217"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cindyprocter-king.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=217"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}