Bad Things

I’m taking a break from blogging this week. The universe decided to dump all over my family over the last few days, and I don’t have the wherewithal to draft posts. First, a member of My Liege’s immediate family was rushed to hospital for the second time in a week in very serious condition. She spent the weekend in the ICU, and although she’s back at home now the details of her condition remain a mystery. We hope to find out more by the end of the month.

The day after that happened, we learned a lightning strike had created a fire on our woodlot. My Liege had to deal with that (the fire’s contained now, as far as we know). No idea of the damage to the timber.

The same day, we finally got our new stove, only to discover an 18-inch long gouge in the side. Back to the store it went, and we’re waiting for another.

We thought that was Bad Thing #3, and we couldn’t possibly receive any more grungy news.

Pitiful humans. A gouge in a stove doesn’t even count as a Bad Thing, it appears.

Yesterday, just as Eldest Son was leaving on a four-day camping trip without cell access, we learned that the room in the private home he was to move into in two weeks for his last year at university was damaged in a fire that occurred while the owner was on vacation. The repairs won’t be finished until October, which leaves him a month without a place to live. We have fantastic friends in his university town, and they offered to let him stay with them while repairs were underway. But I’ve been in that position before—staying in one home for September before moving into the “permanent” spot in October, and it’s not the best situation in the world. It’s hard to dig into your studies when you don’t feel settled.

So…yesterday, I quickly gathered information for the remaining available housing. He and I went through them, and our friend in the university town checked out the only two of the seven or so that responded. The good news is Eldest Son has a new place to live, not quite as private as his former situation, but cheaper, so he’ll be happy when he comes home and learns that’s settled.

Then last night I awoke in the early hours of the morning with the worst sinus headache I’ve had in years. I’m still battling it.

Today is Youngest Son’s 19th birthday! That’s the best news I’ve heard all week. I’m doing nothing more strenuous than baking him a cake, reading, relaxing, walking the dog, fighting this cold, and maybe going over some notes for a manuscript revision that, at this point, I don’t even remember brainstorming with a writing friend yesterday afternoon over Skype. Good thing I was typing while she talked!

Tuesday, September 1st, romantic suspense author Kylie Brant is guest-blogging. Her promo post will go up on Monday. Unless I feel markedly better between now and Friday, that’s the next time you’ll hear from me. The universe had taken this round. I know when I’m beat. 🙂

By Cindy

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11 comments

  1. Oh, Cindy, what a series! You need some definite recovery time. I will especially pray for the ill family member and that your sinus infection clears up fast–because being sick makes everything else harder to deal with.

  2. Oh, Cindy. I’m so sorry you’re having such a bad week. What’s the saying? “This too shall pass.” Let’s just hoped it’s already passed.

    Make sure you take care of yourself during these crazy times. A bit of chocolate never hurt anyone either.

    Take care,
    Becky/Becca

  3. You aren’t beat, sweetie, just a little beat up. You’ll be up and punching back soon enough. It’s a genetic predisposition.

    I’m glad you got your son settled, and Happy B-day to younger son. Sinus problems are no fun, so take care of it now—BEFORE it becomes a full-blown infection. That is hell.

    Try and rest in your down time, and know you’re loved, Sista!

    {{{Hugs}}}

  4. Thanks for the good thoughts and wishes, everyone. The horrible sinus headache is gone, although I’m now battling the resultant cold, but that’s minor in the scheme of things. I’m taking another day to really rest and work toward getting better, then I’ll dive back into brainstorming my revisions.

  5. Big hugs, Cindy! And now your headache is gone, a glass of red wine 🙂 Hopefully that’s all the bad stuff for a while. Glad you sorted your son’s housing situation.

  6. So glad your headache is gone and that your son found another place to rest his head. Happy belated 19th to your other son! Here’s to a better next week. Get lots of rest and may you lose your cold soon.

    Hugs,
    Gail

  7. It feels SO GOOD to start getting things under control, Gail. If something else goes wrong, I’ll be on a rampage.

  8. This summer cold seems to hit pretty hard, fast, and be gone pretty fast too. Both of US got it (for a change, it was my wife that had it first and gave to me). We both are feeling minor lingering in the the chest.

    Of course, the shared cold seems to be an annual tradition. I had a severe cold first time we physically met, and I gave it to her (she can’t say I never gave her anything).

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