REJECTIONS—THE LESSONS WITHIN
Before I discuss rejections, I had to look up Merriam-Webster’s definition:
Rejection: 1 a: to refuse to accept, consider, submit to, take for some purpose, or use <rejected the suggestion> <reject a manuscript>
I found it interesting that Merriam-Webster’s first reference was at the heart of a writer’s issue. But, remember, the impact of the rejection is that of our choosing.
I’m an extreme optimist. I believe everything happens for a reason, and I believe, however tragic, good can be found in any situation. It’s up to us to look past the hurt, to find the lessons within the challenging situation which will make us better, and will make us stronger.
Let’s face it, if you decide to write and submit your stories, rejections are part of the process. Instead of focusing on the negativity of a rejection, let’s break down some of the many reasons why an agent or an editor doesn’t accept your work:
- Their client list or book slots for a certain period is full—a pure business circumstance—not a rejection.
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The agent or editor doesn’t connect with your voice. As an author, we want the person who is marketing our novel to not only believe in our work, but to be passionate about it as well. Anything less and they won’t market your work to booksellers and other venues to the fullest extent. So, a pass by an agent or an editor allows you to connect with another business professional who totally Believes in your writing.
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Your work is sub par—[show vs. tell.] less is more. I’ve always thought the amazing thing about writing is that each of us believes our current work-in-progress is the most amazing, well-written story. This belief, however realistic, is necessary for us to dedicate the months necessary to finish the novel. However brilliant your work, until it’s strong, emotionally evocative writing, it won’t be competitive in today’s market. Use the rejection as a tool to let you really focus on your story, to ensure it’s your strongest writing. If you are fortunate enough to receive feedback from an agent or editor, review it. Does the feedback make sense to you? Do you think it will strengthen your novel? If so, use their comments as a base to tighten your work further for future submissions. The bottom line is, once your novel is completed, it’s a marketable resource. If you don’t sell your book at this moment, don’t despair. Down the road, pull it out, tighten it to a target market, then resubmit it.
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Something about your story doesn’t fit their guidelines. It’s really important before you decide to submit your work to a line, that you’ve done your research. If your novel is about a shape shifter and you submit it to a line seeking inspirational stories, odds are you are going to receive a thanks but no thanks. Okay, so I used an extreme example, but I hope you see my point. It’s imperative to ensure your story is targeted at the correct market venue. Otherwise, it’s not a rejection, but a letter stating that your work doesn’t fit their line, which makes sense.
Rejections are tough to receive. When I hit 100, I quit counting them. I figured that I’d learned how to acquire them. 🙂 But, I also learned the value of a rejection, that they’re far more than a slip of paper dismissing my work. Rejections are proof that I’m a dedicated professional, that I’m a writer who dares to believe in myself enough to submit my work, and most of all, a person who follows their dreams. Adversity tests if we truly want to write. Nothing worth anything is ever easy. Never give up—perseverance is the key. My sincere best to each of you as you follow your heart.
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Hey, Diana!
I’ve always admired your attitude toward the business — so upbeat. Very inspiring. I’m thrilled to see it paying off for you, too. Great post!
Best,
Natale
All true. I also keep perseverance quotes around to keep me, well, persevering. My two favorites are (ungrammatically): “90% of success is showing up.” (Woody Allen) and this one from Billy Joel: “I am no longer afraid of becoming lost, because the journey back always reveals something new, and that is ultimately good for the artist.”
Best,
Glenda
I’m an “All things work together for good” person, too, although the good in some things escapes me at times. Still, with hindsight working at better than 20/20, I tend to see the benefits later—from a distance. *g*
Rejection is difficult, but putting it in a business perspective helps.
Great post
Natale Stenzel Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 7:42 am
Hey, Diana!
I’ve always admired your attitude toward the business — so upbeat. Very inspiring. I’m thrilled to see it paying off for you, too. Great post!
~:) Thank you so much, Natale. I always feel like I’m an optimist or idiot with my positive thinking, so I’m clinging to optimist. *G* BTW, I have your latest release, “The Druid Made Me Do It,” on this end for a sanity lift. Your books always make me smile!
I appreciate you stopping by, and I hope you have a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Glenda Garland Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 8:37 am
All true. I also keep perseverance quotes around to keep me, well, persevering. My two favorites are (ungrammatically): “90% of success is showing up.” (Woody Allen) and this one from Billy Joel: “I am no longer afraid of becoming lost, because the journey back always reveals something new, and that is ultimately good for the artist.”
~Glenda, I’ve never heard the Billy Joel quote. Thanks for sharing – love it! Each lesson in life teaches us something. We only have to look. I wish you every success in your writing. Thank you so much for stopping by. Have a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Pat Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 8:38 am
I’m an “All things work together for good” person, too, although the good in some things escapes me at times. Still, with hindsight working at better than 20/20, I tend to see the benefits later—from a distance. *g*
~I agree, which is why I have faith, regardless of the current situation. Often, we can only see clearly by looking back. Also, regardless of the situation, I’m an advocate of searching for the positive. It’s there, we only have to look for it.
Rejection is difficult, but putting it in a business perspective helps.
~Absolutely. The only control we have of our work is up until we submit it, once it’s out the door, we’ve done all that we could. We need to congratulate ourselves for each successful step, whether it’s submission, selling or finishing a manuscript. Each is a major achievement in our life.
Thank you so much for stopping by. I wish you every success and a fabulous holiday season.
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Hi everyone,
Diana, thanks for an excellent post. You are a shining example of perseverance. Congratulations on the 4-Star review!
Glenda, I’ve never heard the Billy Joel quote, either. Thanks for sharing it.
Again, Diana, thank you for being here today.
1. Cindy Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 9:34 am
Hi everyone,
Diana, thanks for an excellent post. You are a shining example of perseverance. Congratulations on the 4-Star review!
~*Blush* Thank you, but I assure you, you are one of the people who I look to for inspiration. I’ve watched you work hard for years. You’re simply amazing!
Again, Diana, thank you for being here today.
~My sincere pleasure. Thank you so much for having me at Muse Interrupted! I wish you and yours a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Great post, Diana!
When I started writing, I wrote historical romance. I actually think I did a pretty good job of it. But I got a few of rejections along the way, two from agents and one from an editor, that all said the same thing: You should really be writing mysteries instead of romances. They had seen something in my writing that I, being too close to it, had missed.
Thankfully, I took their advice. One of those agents is now *my* agent, and I just recently signed a three-book contract … for a cozy mystery series.
Rejections always hurt, but you can learn from them. And you may even discover in one that last piece to your puzzle, the one that gets you sold.
Wendy Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 11:07 am
Great post, Diana!
When I started writing, I wrote historical romance. I actually think I did a pretty good job of it. But I got a few of rejections along the way, two from agents and one from an editor, that all said the same thing: You should really be writing mysteries instead of romances. They had seen something in my writing that I, being too close to it, had missed.
Thankfully, I took their advice. One of those agents is now *my* agent, and I just recently signed a three-book contract … for a cozy mystery series.
~That is fabulous, thank you very much for sharing your experience and your sales! That editors and agents both took time out to ‘guide’ you is excellent. They don’t have time to always do that, so that they did let you know your writing is solid. ^5
Rejections always hurt, but you can learn from them.
~Absolutely.
And you may even discover in one that last piece to your puzzle, the one that gets you sold.
~Exactly, there is no right or wrong way, but the path you were ment to take. I appreciate your taking the time to post, very inspirational! I wish you every success in your writing career. 🙂 Have a wonderful holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Great attitude! Someone on one of my groups calls rejections “regrets”. I like that.
I’m a co-creator of Write Attitude, a website seven writers put together to help other writers (and ourselves) when we get down.
Great post and very well timed for me. It’s all easy to know and hard to keep track sometimes. Thanks for the reminder.
Edie Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 11:45 am
Great attitude! Someone on one of my groups calls rejections “regrets”. I like that.
~Regrets, an interesting view indeed. 🙂
I’m a co-creator of Write Attitude, a website seven writers put together to help other writers (and ourselves) when we get down.
~I checked out your website – excellent! I firmly believe our lives are shaped by our attitudes. I begin every day with an inspirational quote. They’re the best. Thank you so much for stopping by and posting, and for sharing your website with me. I’m going to check out the articles more when I have a free moment.
My sincere best to you in your writing career. I wish you and yours a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Mechele Armstrong aka Lany of Melany Logen Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 12:08 pm
Great post and very well timed for me. It’s all easy to know and hard to keep track sometimes. Thanks for the reminder.
~Mechele, thank you so much for dropping by. I think life is about perspective. When times are tough, it’s easy to invite doubt, which is why it’s important to focus on the positive. Something I do to which helps me is to receive a daily inspirational quote via computer. There are numerous sources if you use search engines. The daily inspiration I receive I found on the everyday health network.
My sincere best to you, and I hope you see your every dream come true. I wish you and yours a wonderful holiday season.
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Just swinging by to say HI DIANA!! (followed the breadcrumbs from Facebook 🙂 ) Great post, Diana, and again, major congrats on an awesome review!!!
PS — don’t put me in the draw … I’m going to buy my copy as soon as I get this WIP off my desk!
*waves to Cindy*
Hi Diana! *Waving from WRW-land*
I’ve always loved your infectiously positive attitude and share it. I think we as writers have to remember to *imagine* ourselves into a better place, no matter what the letter from the editor/agent says. Their loss, our gain, no matter how it seems at the moment. And some of my best critiques and most productive advice came from two agents who rejected me as a client. Can’t complain about that, ’cause the advice was awesome!
Wendy, congrats on that three book contract! Woohooo! ;>
Grins,
Jeanne
Dark and Dangerous, Zebra Romantic Suspense, June 2008 – 4 1/2 Stars, Top Pick – RT
Dark and Deadly, Zebra Romantic Suspense, June 2009
Hey Diana! Congrats on the great RT review. I’m looking forward to reading His Woman.
You’re so right about never giving up. It’s very hard to keep going in the face of repeated rejection, but the reward is certainly worth it. Good thing for us that you sailed past the 100 mark without blinking. Very inspirational.
Hey, Loreth Anne, I’m glad the bread crumbs worked. Yay for me.
(Diana, in case you’re wondering what we’re talking about, I posted a note about you guest blogging today to my Facebook page.)
What a great discussion this is turning out to be. Jeanne, you make some excellent points that I really needed to hear today, and Wendy, congratulations on your contract!
Loreth Anne White Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 2:15 pm
Just swinging by to say HI DIANA!! (followed the breadcrumbs from Facebook ) Great post, Diana, and again, major congrats on an awesome review!!!
~Thank you so much, Loreth! I was blown away. 🙂
PS — don’t put me in the draw … I’m going to buy my copy as soon as I get this WIP off my desk!
~Thank you so much. I hope you love Duncan and Isabel’s story as much as I did writing it. And, with your penchant for writing absolutely amazing suspenseful novels, like Manhunter!, I hope you enjoy the suspense of mine. I’ll be here holding my breath and praying for the best. 🙂
*waves to Cindy*
~Hey, I didn’t know you knew Cindy. Isn’t she the best! She’s one of my heroes. 🙂
My sincere thanks for dropping by. You’re an amazing writer and I wish you every success!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Jeanne Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 2:15 pm
Hi Diana! *Waving from WRW-land*
~Hey, Jeanne, thank you so much for stopping by!
I’ve always loved your infectiously positive attitude and share it.
~In the tough business of writing, it’s the only way to go. *G*
I think we as writers have to remember to *imagine* ourselves into a better place, no matter what the letter from the editor/agent says. Their loss, our gain, no matter how it seems at the moment.
~Exactly.
And some of my best critiques and most productive advice came from two agents who rejected me as a client. Can’t complain about that, ’cause the advice was awesome!
~For me, I wouldn’t want anyone representing me that didn’t believe in me 100%. The words they choose and their excitement all come through when they’re pitching our work to editors. So, if our writing to them is ho hum, you can betcha their pitches reflect that. Which for me means, never settle. Period.
My sincere thanks again for stopping by. Love seeing your 4 1/2 star review, you go!!! ^5 I can’t wait to read Dark and Deadly! Have a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Cindy Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 2:22 pm
Hey, Loreth Anne, I’m glad the bread crumbs worked. Yay for me.
(Diana, in case you’re wondering what we’re talking about, I posted a note about you guest blogging today to my Facebook page.)
~Thanks for explaining. You know, I’m amazed that you can find the time to do facebook. I’m struggling here to write and build a house. Yikes!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Diana, I think that explains it, I’m not trying to BUILD A HOUSE.
But shhh on the Facebook. There are people here I haven’t admitted my newfound Facebook status to yet (although I do plan to admit it later in the week). (Hmm, I might have just outed myself).
Hi Diana,
Great post! And you are soooo right. Rejections if understood can lead to that sale. It’s very true. They are not stopping blocks just little bumps in the road. Can’t wait to get my copy of His Woman.
Kit
Kit Wilkinson Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 4:41 pm
Hi Diana,
Great post! And you are soooo right. Rejections if understood can lead to that sale. It’s very true. They are not stopping blocks just little bumps in the road. Can’t wait to get my copy of His Woman.
~Kit, thank you so much for your post, and a huge congratulations to you on your first sale to Love Inspired! I’m so incredibley happy for you. You’re an amazing person on every level. Definitely an inspiration to me. I wish you every success and may God bless you always. *Hugs*
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Took me all day to get here, but your blog was worth the wait, Diana. Your blogs always are!
I love the terms “regrets!” Kudos to your group, Edie!!
Diana, you don’t have to enter me. I’m a nice person, but I’ll trip people to get to HIS WOMAN as soon as it’s released!
Light,
Nancy
http://www.nancyhaddock.com
La Vida Vampire, April 2008
Last Vampire Standing, May 2009
Annette McCleave Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 2:21 pm
Hey Diana! Congrats on the great RT review. I’m looking forward to reading His Woman.
~Thank you so much, Annette! I hope you enjoy Duncan and Isabel’s story. When I met Duncan while writing His Captive, I knew I had to write his story next. I didn’t expect the tangle of events that ended up occurring though. \
You’re so right about never giving up. It’s very hard to keep going in the face of repeated rejection, but the reward is certainly worth it. Good thing for us that you sailed past the 100 mark without blinking. Very inspirational.
~:) Not sure about the sailed part *G*, crawled more like it. Seriously, only we can tell our stories. Forget about the naysayers and follow your heart. My sincere best to you, and I wish you a fabulous writing career. Have a wonderful holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Nancy Haddock Says:
November 10th, 2008 at 5:16 pm
Took me all day to get here, but your blog was worth the wait, Diana. Your blogs always are!
~*Chuckle* You’re too kind, really. I know your blogs are dang fun – always!
Diana, you don’t have to enter me. I’m a nice person, but I’ll trip people to get to HIS WOMAN as soon as it’s released!
~LOL A woman after my own heart. I cry foul as I have to wait until May to read Last Vampire standing. But, May will come! Thank you so much for stopping by, I sincerely appreciate it. I wish you every success with your second release. *Hugs* Have a fabulous holiday season – go surfing!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
I’d like to thank Cindy for having me on her blog, I’ve had a blast. I’d also like to thank everyone for taking the time out to stop by and say hi. You’re the best! *Hugs*
If anyone has anymore questions or comments, I’ll check back tomorrow. May your holidays be filled with blessings. Please persevere, be true to your heart, and I wish you the sincere best. Remember, dreams are visions of what we can become. Go and dream!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Thank YOU, Diana, for being here. The names we’ve amassed so far are in the Magic Plastic Safeway Grocery Bag just waiting for my nifty fingers to pull out a name. Any comments received overnight will also qualify to enter the draw. Look for the winner here tomorrow morning between 6 and 8 a.m. PST. (that’s PST as in Pacific Standard Time, not as in psstt.)
Hey, I just realized my blog is still posting Daylight Savings Time. Crud, how do I fix that?
Cindy says,
Hey, I just realized my blog is still posting Daylight Savings Time. Crud, how do I fix that?
I’m not sure, sorry I can’t help. Thank you SO much again for having me on your blog. I had a blast. Have a fabulous holiday season! *Hugs*
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Diana
you couldn’t have put it better–what a great attitude and you’re such an inspiration to other aspiring writers!
Marin Thomas
The Cowboy and the Angel (Nov 08)
http://www.marinthomas.com
Diana,
I think there are two very valuable things for writers in receiving rejections, whether you get just a few or over 100:
1. You learn early that this is a tough business and you begin developing that tough outer shell you need to survive and prosper. When I got my first rejection via e-mail, I was at my day job. I had to shut the door to my office and cry for 30 minutes. By my 20th rejection, I was rolling my eyes and adding it to the pile.
2. The “quality” of your rejections will improve over time, and be a good indicator that you are getting close to selling. I remember that I got the best rejection ever less than a month before I sold. The agent wrote in detail about everything she liked about my manuscript, but said there was just a teensy thing that didn’t work for her. I knew then that I was getting close and it gave me hope. Would you believe I sent that agent a thank-you note?
I think rejections are not only part of the process, but can actually be helpful to us as writers. My two cents.
Thanks for the post. Always enjoy hearing from you.
Christine
We have a winner! The Magic Plastic Safeway Grocery Bag says…
Edie, you’ve won a copy of HIS WOMAN from Diana Cosby! I’ll be in touch in private email. Congratulations!
Marin Thomas Says:
November 11th, 2008 at 6:42 am
Diana
you couldn’t have put it better–what a great attitude and you’re such an inspiration to other aspiring writers!
~I assure you, the thanks goes to the amazing people over the years who have taken time out of their busy lives to make a difference in mine. Brenda, I wish your latest release, The Cowboy and the Angel, every success! You’re a tremendous writers whose stories touch a reader’s heart. May your holidays be blessed.
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Christine Trent Says:
November 11th, 2008 at 7:39 am
Diana,
I think there are two very valuable things for writers in receiving rejections, whether you get just a few or over 100:
1. You learn early that this is a tough business and you begin developing that tough outer shell you need to survive and prosper. When I got my first rejection via e-mail, I was at my day job. I had to shut the door to my office and cry for 30 minutes. By my 20th rejection, I was rolling my eyes and adding it to the pile.
~:) I also find that depending on your mood, rejections affect you more or less.
2. The “quality” of your rejections will improve over time, and be a good indicator that you are getting close to selling. I remember that I got the best rejection ever less than a month before I sold. The agent wrote in detail about everything she liked about my manuscript, but said there was just a teensy thing that didn’t work for her. I knew then that I was getting close and it gave me hope. Would you believe I sent that agent a thank-you note?
~Absolutely. It’s a professional courtesy. Regardless of how nice or otherwise the rejection, I always do this. I believe it leaves a ‘nice’ feel on the receiving end.
I think rejections are not only part of the process, but can actually be helpful to us as writers. My two cents.
~I have also learned that all of the years of not selling has allowed me to learn the industry/market and most important, make friends who are invaluable. Other writers I’ve grown close to offer support, guidance and a ton of other advice I’d never even thought of before I sold. Which, is why I say, everything works out for the best in the end.
Thanks for the post. Always enjoy hearing from you.
~Great seeing you, Christine. I appreciate you stopping by and saying hello. Congratulations on your sale! I love seeing terrific things happen to terrific people. Have a wonderful holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Cindy Says:
November 11th, 2008 at 8:36 am
We have a winner! The Magic Plastic Safeway Grocery Bag says…
Edie, you’ve won a copy of HIS WOMAN from Diana Cosby! I’ll be in touch in private email. Congratulations!
~Congratulations, Edie! Please let me know who you would like the book signed to. Have a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Diana, I fixed the Time Zone issue. I didn’t know I had to change time zones in WordPress manually. I can’t remember how I did it, of course, but it’s done. 🙂
Diana! What a great blog post! And here I thought I’d done well with over 80 rejections, LOL! Sorry, I’m late here. For some reason I’d gotten the dates mixed up and thought it was Tuesday you were blogging. :/ Congrats on the great RT review! 🙂
Mary
Mary J. Forbes Says:
November 11th, 2008 at 10:05 am
Diana! What a great blog post! And here I thought I’d done well with over 80 rejections, LOL!
~*G* Hey, each rejection is our own personal badge of courage.
Sorry, I’m late here. For some reason I’d gotten the dates mixed up and thought it was Tuesday you were blogging. :/
~Absolutely no problem. I sincerely appreciate your stopping by. You’re such an inspiration to me as well as a great friend. Your stories/characters are heartwarming. I wish you every success with your November release, “And Baby Makes Four!”
Congrats on the great RT review!
~Thank you so much, I’m over the moon thrilled! Let this be a sign I’ll sell more of the MacGruder series novels. 🙂 Again, my thanks for stopping by. I wish you and yours a fabulous holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Mary, we’re supposed to COUNT the rejections? No one told me that, LOL.
I think I’d get very afeared if I counted.
I love your book cover!
# Annette Says:
November 11th, 2008 at 1:35 pm
I love your book cover!
~:) Thank you so much, Annette. I was blessed with another amazing cover. Duncan definitely has attitude and presence, so this cover works magnificently. I sincerely appreciate you stopping by. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Diana – great post 🙂 Thanks for such a positive outlook on rejections! Often I feel that way, but sometimes I get really down, so your reinforcement is fantastic. Sorry I didn’t get to this post till today – I was working all day yesterday and too brain dead last night to do much at all.
Hi, Teresa, thanks for coming. Sorry I didn’t get a chance to enter you in the draw! More guest bloggers coming in December. The next is December 2nd and then December 9th. Hope to see you then.
Teresa Says:
November 11th, 2008 at 8:47 pm
Diana – great post Thanks for such a positive outlook on rejections! Often I feel that way, but sometimes I get really down, so your reinforcement is fantastic. Sorry I didn’t get to this post till today – I was working all day yesterday and too brain dead last night to do much at all.
~Teresa, great seeing you! I hope all is going great on your end.
How do you like your new home? We should be moving in ours next Friday. Yeah! Thank you for stopping by and your comments on my blog. There’s a lot of negativity out there, but it’s us who choose what we focus on. We empower our lives, so why can’t we choose to live optimistically? It’s not delusional as long as we toss a solid dose of realism into it. 🙂 Again, thanks for stopping by. May your career soar, and I wish you and your family a wonderful holiday season!
Diana
http://www.dianacosby.com
His Captive/Alexander MacGruder
His Woman/December 08/Duncan MacGruder – 4 star Romantic Times review!
Cindy – I hadn’t even thought about the draw 🙂 Just wanted to give Diana my support and read her words of wisdom – and I KNOW how much rejection she saw before FINALLY selling – she’s real inspiration.
Diana – our house is great 🙂 We even have grass seed down now, though it’s still looking rather pathetic *g*. Cool that you’re moving in next Friday – seems like we were only just discussing plans! Will you have pics posted somewhere?
Hi, Teresa, sorry, didn’t mean to make it sound like you were only here for the draw! Bad, bad blog host. If I could make a happy face giving myself a spanking, I would. 😉
Teresa Says:
November 12th, 2008 at 9:53 am
Cindy – I hadn’t even thought about the draw Just wanted to give Diana my support and read her words of wisdom – and I KNOW how much rejection she saw before FINALLY selling – she’s real inspiration.
~*Hugs* As are you, Teresa.
Diana – our house is great We even have grass seed down now, though it’s still looking rather pathetic *g*.
~Grass seed. I’m jealous! *G* Once we’re in I’ll be planting rye grass.
Cool that you’re moving in next Friday – seems like we were only just discussing plans!
~It does. Now, we’ve both moved. Where has the time gone?
Will you have pics posted somewhere?
~I haven’t, but if youll send me your e, I’ll send you some. BTW, I’m leaving for VA in the morning and I’ll be gone until late Saturday. I’m letting you know incase you don’t hear back from me before then. Thanks again so much for dropping by. Always great seeing you! *Hugs*
Diana
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